Extremely slow loading time then freeze

[powerful 0]

Whenever I try joining my home server it gives me the screen with the bar and the text "loading". When the bar finishes, the game just freezes, tried to join the server multiple times, tried using DayZ Commander and using the normal ARMA 2 server list. I really need to get on my home server. :(

[Cassius1988 11]

Please get off these forums. No script kiddies thanks.