Setup completed, please wait. (Private server)

[BuffaloGent 2]

Hey, my clan just recently released their private hive server. I was able to play all day, untill I got killed by zombies at northwest airfield. When trying to respawn back in the game everything went well, chose my character's gender ETC but then I got stuck on "setup completed, please wait" for a good 10-15 followed by me being in the debug fields.So I left the game, and returned to the server. When trying to connect it gave me the option to "male/female" again, so I guess I am somehow unable to connect to the server :/

I've searched the web, and found 2 solutions.

1. Uninstall Arma II

I did, re-installed both arma and operation arrowhead, didn't solve it.

2. Join cs02 or de201(i think it was)

Well, I did, I still had my "main hive character" as if nothing happend, then went back to the private server only to be greeted by the "male/female --- setupt completed, please wait (can open my empty bag when pressing G)---- debug field (with nothing in my inventory)

If anyone would have a solution for me, that would be most appreciated!

[XAM 48]

Tell them to reset your Playerid.