Help- cant even join a game

[CrystalxNeth 0]

So i spent $30 and got arma 2 just for this mod. Now i have a laptop which has like 2.6 ghz and 6gb ram, but a crappy graphics card (intel family...). I can play single player fine but when I go to join a server (normal or day z) it like sends me through 3 or so loading screens, occasionally saying "battleeye initialization failuer" during one of the loading screens. But after all of these loading screens I get sent right back to the main menu... I haave no idea what is wrong and I really want to play the game/mod, so please help, thanks.

Some of my laptop specs:

Processor:

2.00 gigahertz Intel Core i7-2630QM

No memory cache

64-bit ready

Multi-core (4 total)

Hyper-threaded (8 total)

Drives:

749.84 Gigabytes Usable Hard Drive Capacity

542.24 Gigabytes Hard Drive Free Space

Operating System:

Windows 7 Home Premium (x64) Service Pack 1 (build 7601)

Install Language: English (United States)

System Locale: English (United States)

Installed: 7/2/2011 3:11:45 PM

System model:

Hewlett-Packard HP Pavilion dv7 Notebook PC 058C110000244720001620100

System Serial Number: 5CH1211EHA

Enclosure Type: Notebook

Main Circuit Board:

Board: Hewlett-Packard 165B 10.31

Serial Number: PBZCB04HT0G3CK

BIOS: Hewlett-Packard F.1A 07/20/2011

Local Drive Volumes:

c: (NTFS on drive 0) * 734.48 GB 540.53 GB free

d: (NTFS on drive 0) 15.36 GB 1.71 GB free

Memory Modules:

6gb installed memory

Display Devices:

Intel® HD Graphics Family [Display adapter]

Generic PnP Monitor (17.1"vis)

Other devices:

Intel® Centrino® Wireless Bluetooth® 3.0 + High Speed Virtual Adapter

Microsoft AC Adapter

Microsoft ACPI-Compliant Control Method Battery

Microsoft Composite Battery

Validity Sensors (WBF) (PID=0018)

HID-compliant consumer control device

HID-compliant device (2x)

USB Input Device (2x)

HP Officejet 6500 E710n-z (NET)

HP TrueVision HD

Standard PS/2 Keyboard

HID-compliant mouse

Synaptics PS/2 Port TouchPad [Mouse]

Realtek PCIE CardReader

Generic USB Hub (2x)

USB Composite Device (2x)

USB Root Hub (2x)

Generic volume shadow copy

WDKMD

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whoops didnt see the thread with the form i was supposed to filll out:

im running steam version with six updater

[jkjoe889 0]

Hey I think its because your computer isnt good enough to run it

[CrystalxNeth 0]

Hey I think its because your computer isnt good enough to run it

I can play single player on low settings fine so Im pretty sure thats not the problem

[CrystalxNeth 0]

can someone please give me a reply of what the problem is...