Connecting Failed

[Callixto 0]

Hey guys i just wanted to know if anyone can help me. Im gonna tell you guys exactly what happens. Keep in mind this happens with 95% of servers i join.

 

1. i open Dayz Commander and select a server and when i do it says "Wait a moment." 

2. After a short while it takes me to the Arma 2 main menu screen and it says "Connecting Failed" 

 

i made 2 videos to show exactly what happens and how it happens. Excuse the bad quality.

 

This is the one of me clicking on the server to join in.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MvSBclM8Qx0

 

and this is the one of what happens once i click in to joina  server. 

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RyILInJqijk

 

This has been going on for about a month now. I have absolutly no idea how to fix this. Ive even gone to the extent of re installing windows but that didnt help me at all. Does anyone have any idea why this is happening and how to fix it? Please i would really like to get back to the game i love playing.

[Callixto 0]

Also please excuse me posting the videos idk if im allowed to or not im not very familiar with the forum rules.

[Callixto 0]

can no one really help me?