I have yet to play DayZ, (downloading it right now) and my friend is playing it, and getting some experience. But I'm laid back like you. I wanna give people a chance before I decide wether or not to shoot them. Me and my friend got Skype. We both speak english (he's english and I'm swedish). We should meet up and see if we can make something out of it! I've got very little experience on the mod, but got moderate experience on Arma. So I think I'll do fine :)