BAMF Twinkie

HI im trying to join a server with my friends, but everytime I go to join I just get stuck on "waiting for host". no other server does this however using six launcher this server is in orange whats it mean?>>>>>>>>>>>

BUMP still same thing, I'm using Six Launcher when I open it up most severs are in orange text and when I click them to play on it says server outdated, but i have the latest patch. Whats wrong?>>>>>>>>>>>