Yep getting the even newer version, and instead of using six Launcher/updater went to the folder and used “Launch Arma2 OA Beta Patch” certainly solved my problem. Should be mentioned that it did not work if I tried it from six launcher and then went back to open it from OA Beta patch, had to install it again, never opening six launcher again o0 BTW I noticed that the servers I could play on of those I filtered out was more populated (maxed out or close, the rest was less than 10 on each), So I guess there are more people that have similar problems. Thanks from the bottom of this survivors heart :P