Just take a chill pill man. Rocket can't redesign the engine. Hopefully Bohemia pulls their heads out of their asses and realizes the potential this game has beyond mod status and actually help him develop it as a standalone game. Then you can expect your "serious" concerns to be addressed... As far as people being assholes, you must not get out much. Welcome to reality. Most people aren't, but there are plenty IRL. Don't get attached to your gear cus you will lose it. Whether to zombies or bandits or to someone exploiting. Shit happens. Me and my friends might be frustrated for a second but then we just laugh. And if we catch people scripting or server hopping on our server, you can bet they are going to enjoy getting banned. Group up, make friends, and once again... do NOT get too attached to your gear.