As I'm also pretty new, I can understand your confusion. I hope my answers provide proper information though. 1:They can't hear you. For most servers, global chat was disabled (as well as sidechat, which was global too) to heighten the realism. The direct chat however has a very short range and will only let people hear you if they are 20-40 within your range. So it's more a 'say' or 'shout' channel. Btw, direct chat attracts z's. 2:Get to know people beforehand. Currently, it's extremely hard to form any sort of bond between strangers, as the current chat doesn't allow warnings from safe distances. So most people would shoot you in question, rather than letting you come close. It's simple survival tactics. 3:If you have a friend, then I would advise you to use a map like this one: http://dayzmap.info/ When you spawn, you get a little text in the bottom right corner of the screen, informing you where you are or what city is near. Using that information, you could plan a meeting point where you can meet up, preferally not at the coast, as that is a very dangerous area. 4:I would advise you to use mumble or ts or skype as that makes you undependant on writing in the ingame chat. You won't want to shout around: "Look out, zombie hoard! Don't make a sound!" when they're right in front of you, as that attracts their attention. Hope I could help you out. Gea out.