Most people don’t understand what it takes to run a server. It’s almost as hard as running a business. It’s mentally and physically draining. It’s so difficult to run a successful server and have a job full time. So unless you have done it your advice is not one based on experience. If you do it just for the love of the game then prepare to be broke and homeless because it will take up all your time trying to make yourself available to everyone and every problem. Running it alone is not really an option. Sorry but time is money and if I am starting a server and want it to be successful it’s gonna have to make some sort of profit. It’s a service, you a catering to the wants and needs of other individuals and that uses your time effort experience and resources. Try it before you judge anyone.