This is a question regarding the specific server mentioned in the title, but generalizes to all.
I'm a fairly new player--20 hours or so in--and though I've picked up most of the mechanics of the game and am having a great time with it, I'm very unclear about some basic social / engagement rules in the game, in part, I suppose because that's a fluid kind of thing. For example, just now I died in Berezino in the following way: I'm talking to a guy in police station as he's searching, we're chatting about where I can go hunting. Both outside now, we suddenly both notice a dude way down the road, doing the friendly wiggle. I wave. A silenced round takes me out.
Now it's possible the dude in police (who said he was running from cannibals, and who offered me food) suddenly found a gun and took me out from behind suddenly. Or it's possible the dude far out was baiting me to stand still and some other shooter with a scope took me out. Either way, I lost both of my long guns and a fairly good stash of gear.
Here's my uber freshie puzzlement: I'm not understanding how I would handle that engagement any differently next time it occurs. I'm standing in a coastal town with hands empty, chatting with a dude. Is it simply the case that if you are visibly carrying weapons, you are a target and so have to KOS most you encounter ?
The nature of dayz is that a character like the one I just lost, are often the result of several hours of investment. These kinds of cheesy deaths make me see the enterprise as a largely nihilistic one in which there really isn't a purpose to investing time. And though I totally can imagine scenarios in which other people (ie. whomever shot me here) are role-playing, say, fiendish survivors who purposely stalk the coastal towns for friendly people to snipe, I think it just makes the game less interesting, less inviting to someone who isn't interesting in donning the black cap, black eyepatch and adopting a KOS demeanor.
I note my question has taken the character of a comment, but I want to emphasize that I'm new here, and this is what I see. Do you have a suggestion about how to see this differently ? Are deaths like the one just described common ? Expected ? Is this simply a matter of my not being battle hardened ?