The thing with the waiting is that people expect too much and want you to expand, they see it as a waste of time, and money. Another thing is unless a topic like this is made, you are seen as not active, this could all blow over if deadlines are made even if very large. People will expect it at a date rather than expecting it immediately. I personally want my community's server to be processed, bringing in my personal bias. I just think if everyone was more open and truthful about your work, and how much you have we wouldn't have rage topics like this. So mods, and those who handle the management of servers; be more active and say what you're doing... come on it's simple. tl;dr - Be open about what you're doing rather than having this type of thing.