Basically I've been playing on this game for about 3 days now and every time i get something or almost have some stuff i get killed but a couple guys who run up on me. So i'm looking for a clan server or private server that isn't necessarily all friendly (That just takes the fun out of it for me), but im not going to get shot down every time I run up on a city. Instead of hoping around from server to server id like to find one that i can play on consistantly and maybe meet some of the people within the server who are friendlies and also make enemies. Preferably a west coast server. Any suggestions?