You are gonna die, accept that and move on or go find another game. When you come back you return to the in-game world as a wholly new person starting from scratch, so don't get attached to your toon or any of their stuff. Luckily you get to remember things. Here are some things I have learned in DayZ that have helped me survive. 1. If you are not armed with a weapon that takes a zombie down in 2 hits then run. Two hit weapons include the splitting axe and the pitch fork. Use melee weapons to kill the infected, never shoot the infected since it attracts more and the one you just shot is like the cylon named Scar, it spawns knowing exactly where you are and is pissed. 2. The infected tend to run in straight lines, this is handy on the coast, especially on dockyards and piers. They will run them selves right off a dock into the water if you lead them right. Also if you are being attacked by another player, bleeding and are pretty sure you won't win, run off the dock, swim out and drop your gear. Makes it harder if not impossible for the asshole/attacker to loot you. You can also just drop loot and hope they take it, but they may just be intent on kill you first. One more thing, if you are being chased by a mob of infected, bleeding and can't stop to bandage yourself start dropping your gear on the road, seem you can't your dead toon but if your dropped the gear you can recover that. 3. Fire axe is the best melee weapon right now, when you find one keep it in slot 1, it's, currently, the only one hit melee weapon on the infected you can get. Paint it if you want, I don't really think it makes any difference, but it looks cooler in black than in green. 4. Get a can opener as soon as you can, axes will open cans but you will lose a lot of food that way. Because of this game I always have a real life can opener in my real life go bag now, I don't carry a can of peaches though (see #5).... 5. Find food asap, always eat everything you find, except you should keep one can of peaches in reserve for the lean times. Drink water whenever you find it, keep at least one canteen, drink from it only when you need to. 6. Never hang around anyplace too long and trust no one. Avoiding people you don't know is the best thing to do if possible, if not either run if they have not seen you or kill them if they have and run your ass away. You can loot but be quick if you must, I advise against this because they may have a buddy in the area, there's plenty of loot around if you know where to look. Until you know what you are doing only venture into villages and cities with extreme caution. 7. There is a ship wreck on the coast north of Berezino, if you spawn in that area go there first and loot it, it is almost always infected free there, has some nice stuff usually and fresh water ponds close by. 8. Remember what the houses you loot look like, some houses will have nothing but there are some that spawn the same types of things and are spread around the map.