To answer the arrogant question of the OP, yes, I would rather die than be restrained or stolen from. My stuff (including my hemoglobin) is my stuff and I choose not to give it to you. I'll take my chances, so go ahead and take the shot if that's what you feel is in your best interest. The only communication that you are going to get from me in-game is me telling you to go bugger off. I've played a bunch of hours (30+) and not been killed by a player yet, incidentally.