Griefy

I love it when I fresh spawn and I see people without helmets, I know I have a good chance of knocking them out and taking their shit(especially on first person only servers), but on the flipside I don't really wear helmets either, I like the look of no helmet. I've found that I have developed along the same lines as you, wearing bright items just to attract peoples attention and it's more fun to outfit myself with weird stuff now that they are implementing tons of new clothing.

Shut up.

I had the same problem with Assault vest on a male char.

What is it about this game and the Arma series in particular that makes it seem like there is a gigantic amount of lag especially when I shoot someone in the back and they have time to turn around and shoot me and we both end up dead. Is it desync? What exactly is desync and why isn't it a problem in any other games?

Doesn't work at all right now.

I was playing Arma3 and there was a guy defending a house, there was 1 entrance to the house through a long hallway and he was using 3rd person to tell when someone was entering the house, no matter how fast anyone entered the house he could see them and he would peek out and kill them instantly. This was stupid.