Not every bandit nessecarily (i hate that word -_-) kills just for fun or the sports of it. I used to be friendly like you, always havent killed, always asked (first), always helped, teamed up so often, i remember we both had makarovs and there was a room with an alice pack and a m4 in it (In the mod) and so I thought Id just tell him and give him the stuff, yknow, I was in vacation and thought i could find it later, he mightve had a job and not enough time. Minutes later we were on the street, i shot some zombies off his back, turned around to loot one, turned back to him and saw him aiming his m4 at me, bang i was dead. This is not only that, it happened really FUCKING OFTEN, actually. It actually happened every fucking time ive been friendly to someone. Same with your, oh so friendly "New spawns". Ofcourse i dont kill newspawns, and i dont team up with people asking me to team up but rather go off to keep my loot on but when someone with good stuffs appears and is close to me i take out my gun. Its the cycle of dayz. Youre all nice, friendly, help people, die by them, ignore people die by them, team up with people, die by them, keep away from people, die by them I could go on and on and on. Sooner or later youre downright sick of it, you want to keep your loot, theres a well geared guy close, you got a gun with a full mag or two in your arsenal... And there you are at day 10 with all the loot youd want. How could you survive that long? By not being friendly.