My endeavor ended in success. At this point i thank ghzt for supplying me with two shiny new weapons without anyone dying in the process and everyone being happy. But i was lucky, I'm aware of that. Meeting a guy like ghzt was like winning the lottery. Most people would have scammed me/killed me. He came up with a good tactic, here it goes: Make sure you meet in the most desolate area possible (borders of the map i suggest) and find a hill so that you are not in line of sight of each other. Also agree on not wearing any weapons at the time of the trade, put the weapon(s) in your bag. If the other person is holding a weapon the deal is off. Now both people drop the items on their respective sides of the hill. The hill should make a line of sight impossible! Then both meet at the hilltop to check if both sides hold the agreed upon items. Then both people go to their loot and loot it and well.. i suggest you log out afterwards and change the server. I cannot stress enough how important it is that nobody draws a weapon. Obviously. I also suggest that both parties agree on coming alone. I know its not perfect and still holds loopholes like, the other person didn't drop loot and waits atop the hill with a weapon. But it seems like the best method right now and its how i will make future trades. I hope this helps other people and gives some hope of success.