I've found what you're all looking for, the server is called 'ZeroSurvival.net' The IP is 144.76.72.235:2314 It's old school DayZ but has a custom form of base building, which I don't have any issues with seeing as it's a planned feature in the standalone. It's a great server with great admins but has a few Issues. Unfortunately, the server has caused me a great deal of lag, Is always full, and It's hard to get started in terms of weapons and getting resources (especially when you experience lag) So it seems you're all not alone in terms of wanting Vanilla DayZ and a more realistic survival experience. It would be great if there was a server out there that copies what they've done on ZeroSurvival.net... not pushing any hints there ^_^