Try a bunch of private servers until you find one with a regular population and solid admins who don't abuse their power. Then try to stick to that hive in order to keep the gear you've collected. Staying logged in 24/7 isn't feasible for a variety of reasons. But you do want to log out in safe area, otherwise someone may kill you before you've completely spawned-in the next time. As far as hackers go, if you see 4+ player death notifications pop up in your side chat all at once.. be prepared to abort at a moment's notice. Likewise, if a hacker teleports you into the sky (which is something they love to do), quickly aborting can save you from death. Obviously you'll run into more hackers on the public hive.