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I have been trying to play DayZ for the first time for the past 3 hours. I have encountered problem after problem trying to join servers, and have fixed most. I still haven't been able to play at all since I installed it. Right now the problems I am having are the loading taking FOREVER to finish and then saying I lost connection to the host, and if I do somehow get past that loading phase I get stuck on receiving data forever...

Anyone going to at least try to help me? :| I have tried almost everything

My first time was yesterday :D I spawned by a lake and started crawling to a little shed/house that I saw nearby and saw a zombie was in there, so I tried to get inside and check it out, but accidentally alerted the zombie and other ones in there. I sprinted away from like 5 zombies then made a sharp turn and went prone and lost them, I was bleeding out and tried to figure out how to use my bandages, but couldn't figure it out and died when another zombie walked up and somehow spotted me. Right now my game is buggy, that time I played was the only time I got it working the the 3 hours it was installed. It won't load when I join a server and always says I lost connection to host...

Bump, I really need help