I had posted something like this in the suggestion forums asking for an option to either turn friendly-fire off, or exact harsher penalties on Bandits. You just have to change your style of play, unfortunately. This game does not support grouping in the slightest aspect. Most people shoot you on the spot because, more than likely, you have something they want, or they have something they don't want to give up. As someone made a post at one point, there is literally zero benefit to grouping up with someone else. You have to split resources, keep track of one another, and it's much easier to simply kill someone than to group up with them. I play on semi-populated servers, but I always, 100% of the time, avoid big cities, unless I have my DayZ posse of friends. I was beyond happy when I found a ghillie, simply because it enabled me to avoid people better, not so I could snipe. I'm still trying to track down NV's and TV, again, not so I can PvP, but so I can avoid getting instantly shot in the face. About a week ago, I had broken my vow and gone into Elektro. Of course, I got killed, and was on my way back to try and see if there would be some semblance of my gear left that I had been collecting when I randomly ran into an extremely nice person, Venthros (I believe) in the middle of the woods. I was completely unarmed. He asked me if I needed help, and after explaining what happened, he very nicely helped me back into Elektro. It turns out, he was the admin of the server, and we had a pretty great conversation in the small time that we had together. He helped me to get a lot of my gear back, and even showed me a secret stash of his to help get me back on track. Through our conversation, though, we began discussing the social aspect of DayZ, and how we neither had really run into too many other people who didn't immediately try to kill you. He told me he was 50/50 on immediate killings, and had helped me out because I was unarmed. However, he said if he runs into anyone with a ghillie or military grade weapons, he shoots them on sight. I currently have a ghillie, G17, M4A3 CCO, and an MK48. It bothers me that I might never have had the opportunity to talk to this person, or group up with him because of the gear that I have now. Even with the gear that I do have, I enjoy the survival aspect of the game. I love running out in the woods for hours at a time, checking Deer Stands and trying to find downed choppers. I don't like having to avoid every major hot-spot because of campers and the idea that this game establishes an environment of kill or be killed, because honestly, in a real-life zombie apocalypse, you're more than likely NOT going to shoot everyone you encounter in the face.